All because of a story....

With the new school year starting for my daughter, I knew I wanted to be prepared. I wanted her teacher(s) prepared and I wanted her classmates prepared. So I searched high and low for all the information that I could that was teacher and child friendly on Sensory Processing Disorder. I found a lot of great things, but hands down the best tool that I found was the book "This is Gabriel, Making Sense of School" written by Hartley Steiner

I emailed her teacher to set up a time that I could read the book to her class. I told Shelby that I would be coming and talking about SPD and helping her friends understand it. This kind of set Shelby into panic mode. She instantly was worried about what others would think and how others would react. My husband and I explained to her that no one in her class would know that the book was about her, I would just be reading a story to the class and helping them learn the big words and about their senses...and that while she has SPD no one in her class would know unless she told them.

The morning of the story time came.... Shelby was bouncing off the walls with her anxiety. She had to take a few items with her to school to help herself remain calm, but she went. She greeted me at the door when I came to read the story. The teacher quickly organized the room full of kindergarteners on the circle time mat and I took my seat to read the children the story.

I first asked them how many senses they had? No one really knew, so we started listing them, the kids gave me taste, touch, sight, sound and smell. We started discussing how we used those. And then I brought up proprioception and and vestibular. The kids had no idea what I was talking about so we 'tried' to find these senses on our bodies. We spun in circles and jumped etc and we were able to find out the meaning of these senses... we made sense of them.

We then read the story...

The children were so excited to not only hear the fun story and see the awesome pictures and understand a little bit more about how people can be 'different'.... BUT for the first time EVER I saw my daughter PROUD of her SPD!!!! She loved knowing that "This is Gabriel..." is basically about her too, she loved telling her friends about the whys and how comes of how SPD effects her.. for example she said "That's why I get to stand up when we write our letters" or "that's why my shirt sleeve is wet" etc. SHE WAS PROUD to be HER!!!! It brought so much joy to me to see that for ONCE she wasn't embarressed about being 'different' she was enjoying every second of it...

We taught her classmates the words propreiception and vestibular and 'showed' them what those senses were etc. The kids LOVED it... they were so accepting of ALL OF IT and it literally brought tears not only to my eyes but to the eyes of her teacher and also the aid in the room.... and all it took was a story....

So to the author THANK YOU!!!! Thank you so much for writing this amazing book and for sharing Gabriel's story so that other parents/families/children can help others understand more about their 'quirks' ... but mostly... THANK YOU for giving us this story so that I could FINALLY see my baby girl proud of herself.... THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart... there is NO way that I can EVER repay you.. THANK YOU!!!!

Delainey's First Day of FIRST Grade

Today was Delainey's first day of FIRST grade... I can not believe that my oldest daughter is in first grade already. I mean it seems like just yesterday that it was just her and a I all day every day....

But gone are those days.... she now spends her days in the circle of her friends rather than in the circle of my arms. There are days that I am ok with this, and there are days that I am not. We want for our children to grow and mature and to be able to rely on themselves, but there are certainly days that we wish that they still wanted/needed us to do everything for them... well at least I feel that way some days.

Here are a few pictures from her first day of school... ENJOY!!!

D,S, A and B under the name of the school on the building

Shelby and Avery's First Day of Preschool

Today was Shelby and Avery's first day of preschool... it went really well from where I was standing... It did get off to a rocky start because there was some anxiety, but overall everything worked out well and the girls are excited to go back tomorrow :) They LOVED the bus by the way *this was a HUGE fear for me*

Shelby and Mommy

Avery and Mommy

Daddy and his baby girls :)

Mommy and Shelby and Avery

I am sorry but this pose will NEVER get old :)

The girls outside the sign for preschool...

By their backpack hooks :)

Shelby with just a bit of anxiety... Chad said that only I would take a picture of this :)

Avery getting off the bus...

Shelby getting off the bus.

Delainey of course had to help drop them off... it was cute, but it was also funny to see how BIG she looked compared to all the preschool kids considering she was just there last year :)