Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Weigh-in Wednesday Rethink Your Shrink Week 1

Rethink Your Shrink!

Today is the start of the newest challenge over at the Sisterhood of the Shrinking Jeans. If you are not familiar with the Sisterhood I really think you need to pop over there and check them out. You can click on THIS LINK and it will take you over to the Sisterhood and the newest challenge that they have set out for us. The details for the newest challenge are all laid out for you (and me) by clicking this link and we can be on this road to a healthier me and you in no time.

This new challenge is set up to last 7 weeks so this will be the first weigh in of the challenge. I do have to post one portion of the post from the Sisterhood on my blog because it spoke to me so clearly *Thank you Christie*... so here it is:
 I also think that it is important for us to set goals that are attainable for ourselves. Does that mean that I don't think I should say "I want to weigh 135lbs", no I am not saying that... but if I had that as my only goal I would easily get discouraged because that is literally over 100 pounds that I need to lose, so instead my first goal is to get myself under 200lbs, so you see that is still a fairly large goal (as it means I need to lose 40lbs), but at least it is a smaller goal for me. I have also decided that I am going to start listing my BMI on my challenges as well so here are my starting stats for the Rethink Your Shrink Challenge:

Starting Weight: 239.4 lbs
Starting BMI:  41.1
Starting Body Fat %: 53.9%



So here goes... Here are my goals for this week:

  1. Get back on track with Weight Watchers Online, *BTW they are running a promotional thing right now were if you sign up you get your registration fees waived* 
  2. Start drinking more water. I want to drink at least 200 ozs per day. This would mean I have to fill my water bottle 5 times, and I know that I can do it. So if you happen to live near me and you see me without my water bottle... could you make a point to point it out *Hey... I never said I could do this all on my own*
  3. Start the Wii Active 30 day challenge again. When I was doing it before I was doing really well with it, I just have to get back on track.
  4. Start going to the Gym again. This could take some serious work since my kids are not that fond of the child watch program, but I will have to figure something out...
  5. No late night snacking except for my "Thursdays at Fridays" and even then I want to keep it light and no so unhealthy
  6. Take it easy on the 'beverages' tomorrow, New Years Eve. Did you know the kind of hidden calories that are snuck into those drinks?? I mean it is crazy.
I think those some pretty good goals for this week. So in the event that you would like to join the party please feel free to stop over at the Sisterhood and join in the fun the more the merrier is definately the theory over there... as long as it is the more people trying to get/stay healthy.

GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!!!

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Totally Ticks me Off Tuesday


YAY... it's Tuesday... Which means that I get to do "Totally Ticks Me off Tuesday"... I originally stole borrowed  this idea from my good blogging/twitter friend MidWestMommy but she hasn't been needing it lately so I have decided to carry on the torch and keep it up...although I am really glad that she hasn't been needing it as much... So here goes my Totally Ticks me Off Tuesday....
  1. First off... I really did not like Christmas this year... it was the first holiday that I was "home" (I spent Thanksgiving in the Twin Cities with my husband's family) that my grandfather was not here. I was not ready for this... I thought I was because I am such a good 'faker' and have been doing a lot better with my emotions (only crying in the shower, when everyone else is asleep and in the car counts as having my emotions in check right???). So that wasn't the part that ticked me off... the part that ticked me off was when I made the attempt to leave the house *in a blizzard mind you* to join the rest of my extended family for the celebration I was the butt of the jokes, the very special gift that I made my grandmother was purposely left out of the 'list' of items she received for Christmas, and last but not least... my grandpa wasn't there because of some one else's mistakes/stupidity...AND THAT TOTALLY TICKED ME OFF...
  2. I was totally pissed off by the fact that a certain relative(s) didn't call to tell us Merry Christmas and when we called to tell them Merry Christmas we were told they were too busy to talk to our kids... THANKS ALOT..
  3. In that same sense... the same relatives called the DAY AFTER Shelby and Avery's birthday to tell them happy birthday... said relative also argued with us when we said their birthday was the day before... HELLO!?!?!? You have a child who has the same damn birthday! Bet you called him! Oh..and for those who care... no the person did not ever admit that they were wrong...we just switched the conversation and let them tell the girls Happy Birthday... although Shelby did make a point to say "todays not my birthday...it was yesterday" (that part did NOT tick me off ha ha)
  4. I am ticked off that the plastic is STILL not up on the windows in my bedroom so therefor I freeze my butt off all night long ... brrrrr
  5. LASTLY I was completely pissed off (and disgusted) by the fact that I went to the store to buy a new scale yesterday. I purchased one that seemed pretty good, had a lot of bells and whistles etc. Got it home to find someone else's nasty gross bathroom scale in the box instead...EWWWW. I promptly took it back to the store that I bought it from and was accused of being the who to do it... Umm excuse me? I think I am now joining my friend Lissa on her feelings for this store . I was able to finally get the scale that I actually purchased but only because I name dropped of a friend who is a manager at that store...but talk about pissing me off!!!
There is more but I think this is enough for those of you who have sat through my list of bitching long enough... lol.

Happy Tuesday :)

True Confessions Tuesday

Today is Tuesday and the Sisterhood of the Shrinking Jeans has started a new system in which each day of the week is going to have a set 'thing' to be discussed, and I want to jump on the wagon and get in action with my sisters (and brothers) over at the Hood.
The schedule for the Sisterhood and their themed posting as such:
Motivation Monday
True Confessions Tuesday
Weigh-in Wednesday
Thursday's 3's
Fitness Friday
The Saturday Review
Recipe Sunday



I am looking forward to this new and fun schedule for my journey to a thinner (and healthier) me... too bad my family is less than impressed that they are along for the ride on this new journey... *insert evil laugh here*, but since I do the shopping and the cooking I guess they are on board whether they like it or not.


So here are my True Confessions Tuesday:
  1. I had like NO water the past two weeks... unless of course you count the apple juice that I have been drinking as if it were water or the water in the coffee that I have been consuming? No...well then I have definately not have not had the right amount of water consumption
  2. I made this wonderful chocolate treats for the holidays and pretty much finished them off myself...I mean my kids and the rest of my family helped too, but for example last night I told my 4 year old she couldn't have one because there was only one left and I wanted it... that is just WRONG mommy... plain wrong.
  3. I have had NO activity other than falling down my stairs (don't worry I'm ok and it really is a daily happening around here), and chasing my cousin's dog who got out of the house yesterday and almost got run over by the snow plow.
  4. Aside from all the 'garbage' food I have had to eat I have been doing pretty good with the rest of my eating... that should count for something right?? ok.. so it doesn't but you can't blame the fat girl for trying
  5. I am so afraid of the new scale that I bought yesterday...but I will do it anyways...tomorrow that is 
That's it for True Confessions Tuesday... see you tomorrow for Weigh-in Wednesday..

Monday, December 28, 2009

'not me' Monday

Yay!!! It is Monday... you know what that means.... the other grown-ups at my house go back to work, and I get to spend the entire day getting the Krumwiede kids back into a routine... and oh yea... and it is also time for 'not me' Monday too. I love it when "not me" get to visit our house and it isn't because one of the other residents did something that they don't want to own up to... it is ME who gets to me Not Me... *insert evil laugh here*




Welcome to Not Me! Monday! This blog carnival was created by MckMama. You can head over to her blog to read what she and everyone else have not been doing this week.

This week was a doozy, so there were a lot of I most certain did NOT just do that moments, but being me you know that I am going to share the most 'fun' ones...because let's face it no one wants to hear about the boring stuff in our life...who would actually read my blog if all I ever did was actually talk about the 'boring' stuff that happens in the Krumwiede house hold.

I most certainly did not wish/plead/beg for a dishwasher for Christmas. I mean what kind of sick and twisted woman wants a household appliance for Christmas. My husband also did not respond with "No way...this is a trap... I just know it" when I told him that was what I wanted for Christmas... if this had happened I would be saying WAY TO GO Chad for the 'no appliances for gifts' rule that was established early on in our relationship except I REALLY REALLY do want a new dishwasher... well that is if this had been me 

With Christmas this past week(end) I had been getting myself in kind of a tizy about the fact that we didn't have a lot of things under the Christmas tree for the children... I am sure we are not he only family that money is a bit tight for and I also know that we aren't the only family who feels that the presents aren't the REAL reason for the season. So because of that you know that it most certainly was not me searching the isles of our local discount chain store at 1:00am Christmas Eve looking for a present that one of our children had asked 'the man' for.... nope most certainly not me. And since that was not me, it also was not me who could not find said requested item and burst into tears while talking to my husband and said "Oh no... Robot-dog is going to be her Wiener whistle"... and you know that is most certain was NOT my husband who burst out laughing while on said phone call because as I said it most certainly was NOT me who did any of that.

In continuation of the previous not me... it most certainly was not me who wrote a note on the even better gift that I KNEW our child would like better than the Robot-dog from 'the man' that said "Sorry Delainey, but I wasn't able to get any more Robot-dogs made since you came to visit my helper until late in the week. I was able to make this wonderful art easel for you though, and I know that the amazing artist in you would much rather have this"... and since that wasn't me... I certainly didn't write the note using my left hand so the note didn't look like my 'mom' handwriting... Nope.. NOT ME.

On Friday (Christmas Day) I most certainly did not brave the blizzard here in town to attempt to make it over to my uncle's house for the "Wentz Family Christmas" only to leave about an hour in because I just couldn't handle Christmas without my grandfather there... apparently I have been just 'not thinking about it' and hoping that it wouldn't hit me.

On Saturday while in the car getting Shelby and Avery a birthday cake (since I didn't have any cake mixes at home) I most certainly did not burst into tears while hearing the new Carrie Underwood song "Temporary Home" because I knew what was coming in the lyrics. And since it most certainly was not me who did this, I most certainly did not have to pull over because I was crying/screaming so hard I couldn't even see straight. Nope not me... because I always have my emotions in check.

I did most certainly not pray "Dear God Please give me the patience to endure my blessings" this morning when I was awaken by 3 girls screaming/fighting in the hallway over a toy that was actually their brother's... only  7 more days till Winter Break is over :)

I hope that 'not me' Monday has cleared your mind/soul as well as it has mine... Here is to an amazing week for us all...and if that doesn't work... there is always "Totally Ticks Me Off Tuesday" tomorrow :)

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Happy 4th Birthday Shelby and Avery

Happy Birthday to my sweet baby girls... I still can not wrap my mind around everything that happened the evening before and the morning of your births. To see you guys sitting on the couch eating (more) cookies and watching tv has me in tears. The three of us (Shelby, Avery and Kristin) really did beat death that morning... if it wasn't for the skilled doctors who finally realized what was going on for all of us, things certainly would have taken a different turn... but thankfully God was watching out for all of us that morning, and you (and I) am here together with you daddy, Delainey and Brody too. God is good... we are so blessed.

Shelby:
You are an amazing little girl... no matter what comes your way you go at it head on and you figure out YOUR way to get it done. These past 18 months have been a struggle for you but you are coming out/through stronger and braver and tougher than you were before. There is a reason you are so very strong willed... you need it and God knew that. We are so very thankful to get to be your family. Mommy, Daddy, Delainey, Avery and Brody love you more than you can ever fully know or understand. HAPPY 4th BIRTHDAY SHELBY!!! WE LOVE YOU SO VERY VERY MUCH!!! 


*I wasn't allowed to see the girls until late into the evening on 12/27 so this isn't a birthday picture*


Avery:
Sweet precious Avery... you started out in our family as being the 'trouble maker' with all the acid reflux, ear infections etc and now you are the one of the kiddos that requires the least amount of time or attention. It is far to easy for us to 'forget' when it is your turn or when its your time because you just want everyone to be happy. Your tender little heart is wounded far to easy but yet you still have that precious smile on your face. You are our little mommy making certain that everyone else is taken care of putting yourself last...You are such a strong and amazing little girl. You are our 'go with the flow' girlie and our family is so very lucky to have you in it. Mommy, Daddy, Delainey, Shelby and Brody love you so very much girlie girl...more than you know... HAPPY 4th BIRTHDAY AVERY!!! WE LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!!!



Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Going Private

After some recent things in our lives, I have decided to make our family blog private. If you are interested in still reading please let your email address in the comments section.

Thank you
The Krumwiedes

Monday, December 21, 2009

Have you seen this video/heard this song???


I have always been a HUGE Beyonce' fan... but after hearing this song and then seeing the video she is an even bigger favorite for me. I love how she is NOT AFRAID to say what is in her heart and on her mind...
She is definately a role model for our daughters...

Sunday, December 20, 2009

The 12 Days of Sickmas

On the first day of sickmas my child gave to me, one case of the croup.
On the second day of sickmas my child gave to me, two splitting head aches and one case of the croup.
On the third day of sickmas my child gave to me, the joy of sharing germ, two splitting head aches and one case the  of croup.
On the fourth day of sickmas my child gave to me, vomit in the hallway, the joy of sharing germs, two splitting head aches and one case of the croup.
On the fifth day of sickmas my children gave to me.... THE JOY OF BEING THEIR MOM, vomit in the hallway, the joy of sharing germs, two splitting head aches and one case of the croup.
On the sixth day of sickmas my children gave to me lovely gooey pink eye, THE JOY OF BEING THEIR MOM, vomit in the hallways, the joy of sharing germs, two splitting headaches and one case of the croup.
On the seventh day of sickmas my children gave to me coughs that sound like barking, lovely gooey pink eye, THE JOY OF BEING THEIR MOM, vomit in the hallways, the joy of sharing germs, two splitting headaches and one case of the croup.
On the eighth day of sickmas my children gave to me, fevers hotter than hades, lovely gooey pink eye, THE JOY OF BEING THEIR MOM, vomit in the hallways, the joy of sharing germs, two splitting head aches and one case of the croup.
On the ninth day of sickmas my children gave to me vomit in in MY bed, fevers hotter than hades, lovely gooey pink eye, THE JOY OF BEING THEIR MOM, vomit in the hallways, the joy of sharing germs, two splitting headaches, and one case of the croup.
On the tenth day of sickmas my children gave to me exhaustion that won't end, vomit in MY bed, fevers hotter than hades, lovely gooey pink eye, THE JOY OF BEING THEIR MOM, vomit in the hallways, the joy of sharing germ, two splitting head aches and one case of the croup.
On the eleventh day of sickmas my children gave to me icky nasty boogers, exhaustion that won't end, vomit in MY bed, fevers hotter than hades, lovely gooey pink eye, the JOY OF BEING THEIR MOM, vomit in the hallways, the joy of sharing germs, two splitting head aches and one case of the croup.
On the twelth day of sickmas my children gave to me all the same symptoms and no sleep in sight, icky nasty boogers, exhaustion that won't end, vomit in MY bed, fevers hotter than hades, lovely gooey pink eye, the JOY OF BEING THEIR MOM, vomit in the hallways, the joy of sharing germs, two splitting headaches, and one case of the croup.

* I hope that you enjoyed the song, because we certainly have not enjoyed being the subject of it... Please understand that our Christmas cards have now turned into New Year's Cards and we are hoping to be up and well soon....*

MERRY SICKMAS from the Krumwiede household

Friday, December 18, 2009

Quote

That which does not kill us makes us stronger. -Friedrich Nietzsche 

Yup... I am so testing out their quote/theory lately

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Weigh-in-Wednesday Shrink-a-versary Week 7

Shrink-a-Versary Challenge with the Sisterhood!
It is Wednesday, and you know what the means... it means we have to get yourselves over to the scale and see just how much damage we have caused by not exactly following our goals that we set for the previous week. Last week my goals were:

  1. Get back on the program. This means, keeping track in my food journal every single thing I eat, sticking to my points and NO CHEATING. *accomplished to a point...I used my 'extra points*
  2. Drink 243 ozs of water each day.*mostly met, I managed to drink 200ozs*
  3. EXERCISE...my goal is to walk at least twice this week and also do some exercises at home with my Wii Active*didn't do at all... I tried to be more active, but with finals and all the other crap going on it just didn't happen*
  4. NO SNACKING AFTER 7pm...and IF I go out tomorrow night I am only going to have water to drink...* did this except for last Tuesday when I did in fact have two drinks and also a snack, but at least I shared the snack with a friend*
  5. Get more sleep... for example last night I got about an hour of sleep... not cool. * Not even close* 
So when I stepped on the scale today and saw 238.2 I was really excited. This is a loss of 5.1 lbs, this loss puts me at my lowest weight for the challenge (by .6lbs but I am taking it), and here is to the hope that it just keeps doing down. It is going to be hard because there are several things that I know are coming up that could easily ruin the hard work I have already put in but I have got to work hard to keep this weight coming off. I would LOVE to be at my goal weight by my 30th birthday next year, (which is almost unrealistic because it is over 100lbs) I at least want to be set squarely well below the 200 mark. So here are my goals for the upcoming week:


  1. Stay on the plan... journal food and keep track of points
  2. drink my water 200 ozs at least.
  3. limit the 'added' stuff to my coffee each morning, it isn't the coffee that is bad for me, it is the need for the tbsp of sugar and the 2 tbsp of the creamer....
  4. exercise at least twice -- even if it is just at home.
  5. No snacking after 7pm. Small exception for tomorrow night which is 'my night', although I do want to be very careful since I will be attending my MOMS Club Annual cookie exchange and well the treats aren't exactly friendly...especially considering I am making a recipe that calls for 1/2 pound of butter...ugh.
  6. be smart... try to get more sleep
  7. this is more of a 'mental' health goal rather than a weight loss, but it is just as important... remember to be thankful for what I have... there are struggles in my life right now, but I need to be thankful for my amazing children, a husband who loves me (and even likes me some times), and amazing friends who love me and are so supportive without ever passing judgement. I AM BLESSED and I need to be thankful for that...
Good luck to everyone who is doing this with us... there is still time to join in the fun if you'd like... in this case the more the merrier :) If you'd like to join please stop over to The Sisterhood of the Shrinking Jeans... *boys can join too*

*EDITED TO ADD* I just went to my Weight Watchers Tools to enter my weight for today... I have officially lost 21.8 lbs since I started losing weight in June... WOW!!! 

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Sensory Processing Disorder....

this story was originally printed in TIME magazine in November 2007... Please read it and help spread awareness of this condition that is currently 'just' a list and not an actual diagnosis. If you'd like to be connected to the actual printed story please click HERE 
"The Next Attention Deficit Disorder?" by Claudia Wallis November 2007
With a teacher for a mom and a physician's assistant for a dad, Matthew North had two experts on the case from birth, but his problems baffled them both. "Everything was hard for Matthew," says Theresa North, of Highland Ranch, Colo. He didn't speak until he was 3. In school, he'd hide under a desk to escape noise and activity. He couldn't coordinate his limbs well enough to catch a big beach ball.
Matthew, now 10, was evaluated for autism and attention deficit hyper-activity disorder, but the labels didn't fit. "We filled out those ADHD questionnaires a million times, and he always came out negative," Theresa recalls. "When we found this place, I cried. It was the first time someone said they could help."
This place is the Sensory Therapies and Research [STAR] Center, just south of Denver, which treats about 50 children a week for a curious mix of problems. Some can't seem to get their motors in gear: they have low muscle tone and a tendency to respond only minimally to conversation and invitations to play. Others are revved too high: they annoy other children by crashing into them or hugging too hard. Many can't handle common noises or the feel of clothing on their skin. A number just seem clumsy. Adults can remember kids like these from their own childhood. They were the ones called losers, loners, klutzes and troublemakers. At STAR Center they wear a more benign label: children with sensory processing disorder (SPD).
Never heard of it? You're in good company. Neither have many pediatricians, neurologists, psychologists and teachers. But in the parallel universe of occupational therapy, which focuses on the more primal "occupations" of life--dressing, eating, working, playing--SPD is commonly treated. Last month, at a conference on SPD in New York City, 350 occupational therapists (OTs) and others gathered to hear about the latest research and therapies.
OTs have been treating SPD, also known as sensory integration dysfunction, since 1972, when A. Jean Ayres, a University of Southern California (USC) psychologist and occupational therapist, published the first book on the condition. As defined by Ayres and others, SPD is a mixed bag of syndromes, but all involve difficulty handling information that comes in through the senses--not merely hearing, sight, smell, taste and touch, but also the proprioceptive and vestibular senses, which tell us where our arms and legs are in relation to the rest of us and how our body is oriented toward gravity. Some kids treated for SPD can't maintain an upright position at a desk; some are so sensitive to touch that they shriek when their fingernails are trimmed or if they get oatmeal on their face. Sounds and smells can be overwhelming. When lawn mowers roar outside the home of Lizzie Cave, 4, a STAR child, she's been known to vomit.
Families that find their way to the STAR Center and other groups that treat SPD typically have traveled a long road to get there. Their common refrains: My doctor doesn't believe in SPD; teachers can't handle it; insurance won't pay for therapy. There's good reason for that. SPD is not listed in medical texts or in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual (DSM), the bible of psychiatric disorders. Doctors acknowledge sensory issues as a common feature of autism and a frequent feature of ADHD but not as a stand-alone disorder. Lucy Jane Miller, a former protégé of Ayres and head of the STAR Center, is spearheading a campaign to change that. She has organized a national effort to have SPD added to the next edition of the DSM, the fifth, due out in 2012. Earning a spot in the DSM V would make it easier for researchers to win grants, kids to get accommodations at school and families to be reimbursed for a course of treatment, which, at the STAR Center, often costs $4,000.
To receive recognition, advocates must provide persuasive evidence that "this is not just part of autism or ADHD, that it's a better definition of what these kids are experiencing," says Dr. Darrel Regier, director of research for the American Psychiatric Association and vice chair of the DSM V task force. What's needed, says Regier, is a body of peer-reviewed studies that defines "a core set of symptoms, a typical clinical course" and, if possible, good treatment data.
SPD research so far is provocative but limited. "It's hard to get grants for a disorder that doesn't exist," laments Miller, whose recent book, Sensational Kids, offers a guide to both research and treatment. Many studies are flawed by vague criteria for identifying the condition, samples that include kids with other disorders, and an utter lack of standardized treatment.
But Miller and others have been slowly building a research base. Studies at her SPD Research Institute, adjacent to the STAR clinic, have identified neurological differences between children with sensory-processing problems and typical kids. In one set of experiments, electrodes are attached to children's hands to measure nervous-system activity in response to a series of stimuli that include a siren, a powerful wintergreen scent, the brush of a feather against the cheek--each repeated eight times. A healthy child will show a strong electrodermal response--basically a measure of sweating or stress--to the first exposure but will quickly habituate, showing little response to the final repetitions. Kids with one brand of SPD jump through the roof with every repetition. "It's as if they are stuck in fight-or-flight mode," says researcher Sarah Schoen.
Other experiments at the University of Colorado have found that kids with sensory problems have atypical brain activity when simultaneously exposed to sound and touch. And a 2006 study of twins at the University of Wisconsin gave evidence that hypersensitivity to noise and touch have a strong genetic component.
No one can say with certainty how many kids are severely affected by sensory problems, though preliminary work by Miller suggests it may be 1 in 20. A critical question is where to draw the line between what's normal and what's pathological (see sidebar). Studies conducted by Alice Carter, professor of psychology at the University of Massachusetts, Boston, suggest that 40% of children ages 7 to 10 are so sensitive to touch that tags in clothing annoy them, and 11% overreact to sirens. But no one would claim that all these kids have a sensory disorder. Carter thinks SPD is too vaguely defined for prime time in the DSM. Instead, she favors adding it to a section at the back of the manual on disorders that warrant further study. Granting it such provisional status would open the door to more research funds. Then, if validated, SPD could have a shot at being included in the DSM VI--due out somewhere around 2025.

But parents of children who are struggling today are not inclined to wait 18 years, so they spring for therapy that has only anecdotal validation. Treatment is highly individualized, but much of it involves guiding the kids to do more of the things they don't do easily and respond less to the things they can't abide. Lizzie Cave works on noise sensitivity by listening to a calibrated series of audiotapes. Jacob Turner, 3, improves his tolerance for food textures by playing with gooey concoctions and allowing a therapist to put them ever nearer his mouth.
Families get instructions on how to adjust their children's "sensory diets" to help them function better at home and in school. Christopher Medema, 7, now puts a weighted blanket on his lap when he's doing seatwork at school. The steady pressure meets some of his need for tactile input and helps him focus. His family has learned to accommodate his craving for motion. "He likes doing math flash cards standing on his head," says his dad, Steven.
As for Matthew North? He still looks a little limp while dangling from gym equipment, and the blue eyes peering above a sprinkling of freckles gaze warily at people he doesn't know. But the boy who couldn't catch a beach ball last summer is now learning Tae Kwon Do and even soccer. "I saved a couple of goals," he admits, with a little prompting from Mom. That sounds an awful lot like recovery--from whatever it is that ails him.n
The original version of this article misidentified occupational therapist A. Jean Ayres as having been on the faculty of UCLA. In fact, Ayres taught and did her groundbreaking research on Sensory Processing Disorder at the University of Southern California (USC).

Totally Ticks me off Tuesday



Well since last week's edition of "Totally Ticks me of Tuesday" made me feel a little better, I thought I'd try it again. It was originally created by my awesome blog friend MidWestMommy, but she hasn't been needing them lately, so being the amazing and supportive friend that I am *umm yea that's it* I thought I would have continuous weeks of nasty no fun crappy stuff that has made me mad to write about so that she could get a break ;)

So here is this weeks 'edition' of Totally Ticks Me of Tuesday Kristin Style:

  1. It really ticks me off when people assume that because I am 'just' a stay-at-home mom that I do absolutely nothing but eat bon-bons and watch tv all day. I may "JUST" be a stay at home mom, but I am also a full time college student, Tastefully Simple Consultant, President of my local MOMS Club, active in my children's schools (yes my school aged children go to 2 different schools and I am active in both of them), I help a friend with her daycare a few days of the weeks and I also have been working hard advocating for my child so she can get a break...really? Yup. Kristin just sits at home and does NOTHING. What I would give for a day in which I really did NOTHING and to sit back and see the crap storm that would happen when people came over.
  2. My house being spotless is NOT MY STYLE... never has been. I saw a sign at a craft fair this summer that said "Pardon the mess my children are making memories"... and quite frankly I would rather them remember me playing with them, reading to them etc than them remember Mommy always yelling about picking up the toys, crayons etc. If you want to see my house clean, then please stop by in between the hours of 10pm and 6am...but I can't promise you that we will be good company.
  3. Health Insurance Companies... yes these REALLY tick me off. I have a child who has a 'need' for services and because her 'need' isn't recognized by the medical community as being 'worthy' of being a 'real' diagnosis we are currently fighting to get her the services she needs. We are on the fence of giving our child a label that while she has 'some' characteristics of we know that it isn't in fact this diagnosis. I am tired of people saying that she is JUST a brat, or that IF we'd spank her she wouldn't act like that etc (insert all the amazing and unwanted/unneeded parenting advice here)... God how I only wish that a spanking would fix this all (not that I am an advocate of spanking/hitting/physical punishments--- just saying I wish it was that easy). 
  4. Having to explain myself and my actions countless times, when I haven't done anything wrong. I should not have to justify my parenting style to other people, unless of course I am doing something illegal or to harm my child, I should not have to explain to other people why we felt the 'need' to invite my 6 year old's entire kindergarten class to her birthday party (if I didn't ask you to help don't worry about it), I should most certainly not have to explain to anyone why my 2 year old's crib is STILL in my bedroom-- but I will... the room that will be my 2 year old's bedroom is currently the toy room because I got sick of having toys completely over taking my living room (which they still do even with a toy room) and our basement needed a bit of remodel before we moved the toys etc down there and you see we just RECENTLY (as in like in the last month) repainted our basement etc to make it more family friendly, so I haven't had the time/energy/motivation/help to move all the toys out of the toy room, paint the wall (they are currently purple and pink as the room was previously my 6 year old's), and move everything the way it would need to be for it to be his room. So there...even though I know that I don't have to explain myself... I still felt the need to do so...
  5. People who don't live here complaining about the way things work in our house. Unless your driver's license has THIS address listed on it... you don't get to ask why this happens or why that doesn't happen and you CERTAINLY do not get to comment on the fact that our Christmas tree still isn't up..(duh..we just had 21 kids 6 and under in our house...do you really think we needed a Christmas tree added to that...I think not).
There is so much more that I could go on about but I am not going to... I think I have given us all enough to process for now...

Thanks for 'listening'....

Friday, December 4, 2009

Happy 2nd Birthday Brody

Happy 2nd birthday to our sweet baby boy... but I guess you aren't a baby anymore...*news flash bucko...you will ALWAYS be my baby just like your sisters will* you are a toddler. A walking, talking, running, screaming full out toddler... you are already such a little man I can't believe it.

You are an amazing little boy who has brought so much joy to our lives in the short 2 years that you have been here... you know just how to smile to make us all feel better but you can push the button that sends us all over the edge. 2 years ago you came into this world quietly and with just an awe of everything going around you and now you are in it all the way. You are the precious little boy who has completed our family... You are a miracle...

Keep on reaching for those stars baby boy... our sweet beautiful beautiful baby boy... you are amazing...

May all your birthday dreams and wishes come true precious baby boy...WE LOVE YOU!!!


 
Brody Allen Buell Krumwiede
December 4, 2007
12:31 pm
6 lbs 13ozs and 19 1/2 inches


Happy Birthday Brody... you are love more than you will ever know... Love, Mommy, Daddy, Delainey, Shelby and Avery

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Weigh in Wednesday Shrink-a-versary Week 6

Shrink-a-Versary Challenge with the Sisterhood!

Today is Wednesday, and I am most certainly NOT impressed with my weigh in today. Today the scale said 243.3 lbs. This is a gain from two weeks ago of 4.5 lbs. I could blame the holidays, the traveling, the visit from my 'friend'... I could blame alot of things, but honestly it all comes down to me falling off the wagon and stress eating... ALOT.

So my goals are to get my arse back on track and get with the program...plain and simple. So here are my goals for the week:
  1. Get back on the program. This means, keeping track in my food journal every single thing I eat, sticking to my points and NO CHEATING.
  2. Drink 243 ozs of water each day.
  3. EXERCISE...my goal is to walk at least twice this week and also do some exercises at home with my Wii Active
  4. NO SNACKING AFTER 7pm...and IF I go out tomorrow night I am only going to have water to drink...
  5. Get more sleep... for example last night I got about an hour of sleep... not cool.
I think those are good goals, and hopefully I can get my butt back in gear and on track. Good luck everyone!!

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Totally Ticks me off Tuesday



It has been awhile since I wanted (read needed) to have a Totally Ticks me off Tuesday which I borrowed from my amazing blogger friend Midwest Mommy. But with holiday travels, overloads of emotions etc it is definately time for me to bust out a Totally Ticks Me Off Tuesday. So here goes.... buckle up is all I am going to say...
  1. I love my family... I really do. But that does not mean that I couldn't go for a little break from them. I remember when we were living in the Twin Cities that I often told Chad " I hate how your family never comes to our place to visit"... well I am finding myself on the very opposite end of that statement now (where my family is concerned not Chad's...his family rarely comes over to visit because it is in fact an 8 hour drive). There is more to this rant/vent, but honestly there isn't any point in getting into it because it won't change anything.
  2. Why don't moms get sick days? Really I mean honestly... we have had some issues with illness in our house and sadly they have been effecting me as well, but I haven't been able to stop my 'job' because of it, I haven't been able to 'call in' sick, I haven't been having people kiss my butt because " I don't feel good"... nope I have had to keep on truckin' on regardless of the fact that I had to vomit into the washtub next to the washing machine, and not only did I not feel well but I also had to clean up the mess that I just made. I mean seriously...come on. I am not saying that other people do not have the right to 'be sick' or to 'not feel well' but buck up, grow up and move on...your an adult...( I use the  term adult loosely...very loosely).
  3. The word retarded is in no way , any shape or any form acceptable to be used EVER... that is all I have to say about that.
  4. I am not 'just' a stay at home mom. I do actually accomplish each day even if people do not realize, recognize or give a rats butt...
  5. Insurance companies suck...I hate that in order for my amazing, unbroken, perfect child to receive services just how it has to be written. I do however commend our amazing OT for the ability to make the fact that our child can be a brat sound so wonderful :)
I think that is enough for now.... ugh